1) If someone walks up to you and says "What are you up to these days?" Don't respond with a sneer, saying "The same thing I've been doing for the past 10 years." Instead, assume that the question was meant as an ice breaker. Even if you say the same thing, say it with a smile.
2) It's probably not the best way to make friends (even with your relatives) by walking up and saying "You've got a lot more grey than you used to." You might mean it as a cute, friendly way to say hello, but it's probably not going to taken that way.
3) Try to get where-ever you need to be on time. Not too late. Not too early. On time is a really good time to get there.
4) Whether or not you bring something really should be based on your host. You've still got a day or two. Why not call and ask? (If your hosts say "No. Don't bring anything." Feel free to bring a bottle of wine, something nifty for them to use after you leave, or some already-in-a-vase flowers. Or, even better, just bring a fabulous attitude and a desire to help out. Even if your host says they don't need anything, I don't know any host who doesn't like offers of help.)
5) Although a little alcohol may make reunions easier for some, too much alcohol is, simply, too much alcohol. Know your limits. Stick to them. And stay away from small children, grills, automobiles, and fireworks if you over-imbibe.
6) Smile for the pictures (even if you don't want to), take the time to say "hi" to everyone (even if you don't know them), and enjoy yourself (even if it's in spite of yourself).
Happy Family Reunion! May all the fireworks be pretty.
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